L E S L E Y  B A R R A T T 

Individual, couples & family counselling

barrattlesley@gmail.com

WE ALL NEED A BIT OF HELP SOMETIMES

Are you... 

  • Finding it increasingly hard to cope

  • Having issues in your relationship, but are unsure how to move forward

  • Feeling anxious, lonely or sad

  • Struggling with problems in your family - is there a breakdown of communication 
     

However overwhelmed you feel, these issues are common and can happen at any stage in a person's life.

Talking to a therapist can help. 

THERAPY CAN HELP YOU TO...

​GET CLARITY ON YOUR ISSUES

Helping you to make sense of how you're feeling. 

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​UNDERSTAND THE CAUSE

Working out when the problems started and how they grew. 

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​CREATE A SOLUTION, TOGETHER

Collaboratively finding the best way to move forward, for you.

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WHAT TO EXPECT.

A DIALOGUE
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Many people worry counselling means they're expected to do all the talking. As part of my approach we'll discuss your issues and work through them together. 
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And if you ever find it hard to talk, there's lots of ways for us to understand your issue through different techniques, exercises and activities.
AN APPROACH TAILORED TO YOU
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There's no 'one way' for you to work through this, and no strict process I follow. 
 
As part of working together, we'll find the most effective, comfortable way for
you to get to where you want to be.   
A JUDGEMENT-FREE ZONE
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Creating a safe environment where you feel understood is crucial to a successful counselling relationship. 
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No matter how judged you may feel in your day to day life, you will always be able to leave that at the door. 
TOTAL SUPPORT & CONFIDENTIALITY
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I'm here to ensure you always feel completely supported as you work through your issue. 
 
And because trust is a fundamental part of that support, every conversation we have is held in complete confidence.  
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About me

QUALIFICATIONS

  • Experienced counsellor with an MA in Relationship Therapy and worked with Relate for over a decade.

  • University Advanced Diploma in Couples Counselling 

  • Member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapists (BACP)

Additional certifications can be found here

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BACKGROUND

Before becoming a counsellor, I've lived abroad, been a full-time mum to two children, and worked in a high-pressured job in finance. 

 

MY APPROACH 
I believe the foundation of any successful counselling relationship is collaboration, transparency and trust. 

I work in a flexible, open and conversational way built around what will work best for you. 


My clients tell me I​ create a very safe, relaxed and non-judgmental space. They say I'm easy to talk to, a good listener, and that however they felt at the beginning of the session, they always leave in a better place. 

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In my time as a counsellor I have helped clients with issues including addiction, body image, depression and bereavement. ​

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A full-list of issues I can help with can be found here. 

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INDIVIDUAL COUNSELLING

Working one to one, at your pace. I'll engage, listen and talk with you about your past, present and future.

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COUPLES COUNSELLING

We'll work on tensions in the relationship, and developing awareness and understanding of each other.

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FAMILY
COUNSELLING

We'll improve communication and understanding of each other, giving time to both the group and individuals so people can speak and be heard.

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YOUNG PERSONS
COUNSELLING

We'll find ways to share overbearing worries in an encouraging, relaxed and fun environment. 

For ages 11 - 17, for younger children please contact me.

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appointments and fees.

Where

Normally, sessions take place in my comfortable counselling room in TN12. 

It's a 5 min drive from:
Paddock Wood, Horsmonden, Matfield, Brenchley 

It's a 20 min drive from:
Tunbridge Wells, Tonbridge, Marden

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While social distancing regulations are in place, appointments are via video call. I can work with Skype, Whatsapp, FaceTime & Zoom. 

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If you're at all unsure, I'm always available to chat through anything before you make a decision. 

Pricing

Individual, couples and family appointments:

£60 for 60 mins 

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Young persons appointments: 
£45 for 45 mins 

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NHS workers discount:

£40 for 60 mins 

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Initial appointments are charged at the same rate.

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